Sunday, January 25, 2004
Well I got the van back yesterday - runs well but needs an alignment and 2 new tires still....
Boys are doing well - Deven is enjoying bowling on Saturdays and is actually pretty good.... I took Dilen to bowl w/Deven after the school session was over and both boys had decent games if you ask me.... Dilen did 100 and 93 and Deven did 113 and 78 - not sure what Deven's games were w/school.... Of course we won't be doing that outing too often - it cost me $9 for 2 games each and Dilen's shoe rental... BUT overall it was a nice time....
E wanted the boys today for NINE hours and then was pissed off (could hear him in background) when I refused.... Sorry but you haven't seen them in almost a month and Deven has school tomorrow - if you have a bad visit at any point it's gonna throw him off for school in the am.... Plus sorry I just don't trust him to return the boys - I know it's probably a silly fear but right now I just don't trust him.... The court said I could have visits supervised on MY terms and sorry if you don't like that but it's my right.... E's mediator/friend SEEMED to understand and commented about starting out w/a visit to McD's etc and working our way up... But then never called back.... Not to mention I had said I wanna know where they are going, what they are gonna be doing and a number AND address.... Mediator had to call me back after talking w/E about giving me their address (they live together) - WTF is that??? Sorry but you aren't just gonna pick up my boys and disappear for nine hours.... In a way I feel bad cause I don't want to keep E and the boys from each other and Uncle Toby is down visiting too and I know the boys would love to see him but I have my rights... And sorry but you are barely calling once a week and suddenly call w/a day's notice that you want the boys ALL DAY?? *breathe, breathe*
Oh and the weekend topper?? We have 6++ inches of snow coming later tonight.... ARRGGGGGGGGGGG
Well better get ready to leave - we are running mom back to down to MD for the week and my relief should be here shortly.... Til next time.....
PS. I am not sure if my comments are working or not - they show up fine for me both here and at home.... anyway if they aren't working for you please feel free to drop me an email at devndilsmom@att.net
Boys are doing well - Deven is enjoying bowling on Saturdays and is actually pretty good.... I took Dilen to bowl w/Deven after the school session was over and both boys had decent games if you ask me.... Dilen did 100 and 93 and Deven did 113 and 78 - not sure what Deven's games were w/school.... Of course we won't be doing that outing too often - it cost me $9 for 2 games each and Dilen's shoe rental... BUT overall it was a nice time....
E wanted the boys today for NINE hours and then was pissed off (could hear him in background) when I refused.... Sorry but you haven't seen them in almost a month and Deven has school tomorrow - if you have a bad visit at any point it's gonna throw him off for school in the am.... Plus sorry I just don't trust him to return the boys - I know it's probably a silly fear but right now I just don't trust him.... The court said I could have visits supervised on MY terms and sorry if you don't like that but it's my right.... E's mediator/friend SEEMED to understand and commented about starting out w/a visit to McD's etc and working our way up... But then never called back.... Not to mention I had said I wanna know where they are going, what they are gonna be doing and a number AND address.... Mediator had to call me back after talking w/E about giving me their address (they live together) - WTF is that??? Sorry but you aren't just gonna pick up my boys and disappear for nine hours.... In a way I feel bad cause I don't want to keep E and the boys from each other and Uncle Toby is down visiting too and I know the boys would love to see him but I have my rights... And sorry but you are barely calling once a week and suddenly call w/a day's notice that you want the boys ALL DAY?? *breathe, breathe*
Oh and the weekend topper?? We have 6++ inches of snow coming later tonight.... ARRGGGGGGGGGGG
Well better get ready to leave - we are running mom back to down to MD for the week and my relief should be here shortly.... Til next time.....
PS. I am not sure if my comments are working or not - they show up fine for me both here and at home.... anyway if they aren't working for you please feel free to drop me an email at devndilsmom@att.net
